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That very sullen, resentful, always grievance about something or someone that is something called vulnerable narcissism. And maybe someone would say, "Hey, do that outside, or leave her alone." [00:53:23] That's where I came up with the example of somebody taking the parking spot because I was like, "Well good luck with this guy now for the rest of the night on your date. Any election to arbitrate, at any time, shall be final and binding on the other party. And then you go, but that's the thing that you did literally yesterday. It's almost like an autopilot thing, but you're right, it's not exactly a master plan here. It's a little bit like gaslighting and projection almost. [00:19:59] Dr. Ramani Durvasula: But the people are being emotionally abused, it often can last for many, many, many, many, many more years. She is a clinical psychologist, professor, best selling author, and speaker. What is this? They're not cultivating healthy relationships. 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And then, when I finally said, "Hey, I don't want to be a part of this business anymore, let's amicably separate." Because the second group who might have grown up with it, and it's almost, you've been so invalidated all your life that this idea of sort of being supply for somebody else and catering to someone else's whims and needs gets a little bit programmed. No oral explanation or oral information given by either of us shall alter the interpretation of these Conditions. Discover the possibilities at invesco.com/etfsolutions. [00:29:07] Dr. Ramani Durvasula: Correct. 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And I think that also fuels some of the confusion. One thing we do know about narcissistic folks is they're really out of touch with what motivates their behavior. This button displays the currently selected search type. , all of us almost exist to serve their needs. Uh-oh, somebody took that parking spot from us, the night's ruined now. What it is, is that because they're so superficial, they're just looking for the quickest path to do things. That sort of chasing the kind of high of the good day becomes what these relationships look like. You know, people who are showing these weight loss stories that are actually really stories of eating disorders and other abuse of their bodies, not okay. [00:05:25] But is it everywhere? Her latest book is Dont You Know Who I Am?: How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility. When you visit the Website or correspond with us via e-mail, you are communicating with us electronically. The Website is intended only for users aged 18 or older. But I wonder, are people who are watching YouTubers and reality TV show stars behaving badly, are they going to start to try and do that? ", [00:10:37] So now, let's jump to the relational space, because what I have worked with many people who have been in long term, like intimate relationships, marriages, long-term committed relationships with narcissistic people, and what they've said is not only was this horribly abusive, so they found themselves in order to survive in this relationship, starting to feel like they could only survive by being an assh*le. [00:37:51] Dr. Ramani Durvasula: And hypocrisy does not sit well with us. For those who feel stuck in a relationship with a narcissist and arent sure what their next step should be, Dr. Ramanis book, Should I Stay or Should I Go? helps readers navigate this complex crossroad. And secondly, people will actually notice that that's off-brand for that person. 32 episodes. at Sign up for Six-Minute Networking our free networking and relationship development mini course atjordanharbinger.com/course! [00:33:50] Dr. Ramani Durvasula: That's part of a larger thing of something called narcissistic supply. Connectingwith key decision-makers? This tracking is done in order to provide us with information on how people move around the site, what is of interest to those people (and what is not), to explore how our marketing is performing, as well as incidental items, such as what percentage of users access the site from a personal computer or mobile phone. "How are you doing? We may also alter these terms and conditions from time to time, and thereby your use of the Website (or any part of it), following such change shall be deemed to be your acceptance of such change. Yeah. 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